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I really like this Blog Post from Syd007! To view more of his articles, please feel free to check out his Blog @ http://syd007.wordpress.com/

I value the comments he made, especially the one most people fail to mentally tackle: The “I Can’t Afford It” mantra, and replacing it with the “How Can I Afford It” attitude. It’s a classic one discovered in Robert Kiyosaki’s “Rich Dad, Poor Dad” series.

And Syd brings up a crucial point in that working a “good paying job” will never really deliver the long-term wealth most people ideally look for, because by the end of the day, you will continually be TAXED heavily from your paychecks and will continually be spinning around on the old-fashioned “Rat Race” circle just to keep thinking, “I’ll always be having to keep paying off my bills every month and never find the true freedom that I ideally desire.”

Plus, after retirement, you’re only left with so much in pensions and the small amount of what’s in the Retirement account (which also gets heavily taxed when you take out from it) that people, as Kiyosaki warns, are “planning to be poor” and accept living mediocrely that it’s befuddling to imagine.

I plan on making more notes in the future about these kinds of topics, but for now, I want to credit Syd007 for his great article on “Financial Illiteracy”. I really wish that more people took the time to sit down and learn more about their Financial Education, instead of just their Academic Education and Professional or Specialist Education.

Mike Parks

In times past I’d read books about money, but during this time period I picked up such books as Your Money or Your Life (Dominguez), The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom (Orman), Rich Dad, Poor Dad (Kiyosaki), to name a few.  Along with the input from those books, talking to others, and my own observations and experiences over the years, I came to some conclusions. Even if your goal is not to become wealthy, it is important to understand that what la … Read More

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It’s always a treat to receive Bob Proctor’s “Insight of the Day”, which emails a daily inspirational quote on Mondays-Thursdays, and an inspirational story every Friday.

I just finished reading this one from Michael Josephson of http://www.CharacterCounts.org that I thought helps sum up a few prominent lessons, valuable for anyone to have in mind.

Enjoy everyone!

Best Always,

Mike Parks


“Graduation Advice”

Whenever I’m asked to give a commencement speech, I’m intimidated by the challenge of finding something to say that’s profound and practical without being trite. I haven’t succeeded yet, but that hasn’t stopped me from trying. So here are some thoughts for graduates:

  • By all means, set goals and go after your dreams, but know that your ultimate happiness will depend not on your plans but your ability to cope with unexpected turns and unavoidable ups and downs. You may not get what you thought you wanted, but if you’re willing to adapt, you can get something even better.
  • Don’t ever underestimate the power of character. If you want to win, don’t whine. Success is made from hard work, perseverance, and integrity, not luck.
  • Listen to both your heart and your head. Pursue your passions, but don’t confuse feelings with facts. Almost nothing is as good or as bad as it first appears, and all things change.
  • Remember, pain and disappointment are inevitable, but tough times are temporary. The enduring impact of experiences and the true nature of relationships are only revealed by time. Persist with confidence that no negative emotion can withstand your will to be happy.
  • Fill your life with laughter, but don’t confuse fun or pleasure with happiness. Don’t sacrifice a thousand tomorrows for a few todays.
  • Live within your means and don’t overestimate your ability to resist temptations that threaten your relationships or reputation.
  • How you make a living is important, but how you make a life is vital. If you don’t pay attention to your personal relationships, no amount career success will be enough.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

Michael Josephson
www.charactercounts.org

HellBoyI figure my blogging this would be quite apropos to the topic at hand today.

I honestly wasn’t planning to blog today, but after today, it just popped like a quick flash.  Sometimes you have to go on your good impulses to move forward.

And I know you’re wondering how in the bloody hell this has to deal with the man in red on your left…well I’ll get to it, don’t worry.

There are days or even months when we feel no motivation or impulse to do anything that will take us in the direction we want to.

Today was starting to feel that way.  You know the feeling.  You wake up with the sand still in your eyes and you say to yourself, “Yeahhhhh, just lying here in bed is all I need right now.  Shut up, alarm clock, and let me Snooze-a-roo.”

But I know that constantly doing that all the time will make me nothing less than a semi-conscious Rip Van Winkle.

I made a promise to myself the night before.  I actually wrote out a list of “To-Do’s” that I’d want to get done today.

To-Do List (Thanks to http://LoveisDope.files.wordpress.com)

And the first thing that I made sure to get out of the way (despite the fact that I roll my eyes every time I have to do it bi-yearly)… the dreaded Smog Test Check:

As soon as I swung into the Test Station (which is attached to a gas station), it was already going to be a Michael Bay-like action-grabber.

Tight-squeezing past a large cylindered gas tanker (just to get inside the gas station), and then waiting 2 minutes before I could get through the congested gas-filling area, I finally get access to the Test Station section.

Under normal circumstances, this would be one of those humdrum situations where you pay $50, get a certificate saying “You passed!” and then you go and pay $130 for your Auto Registration, and then I’d give myself a pat on the back for getting it done.

But the person I have to predominantly thank for putting this post into full gear.  Hurling into the Test Station in his Black Mercedes was none other than sunglassed, though sadly cigar-less, Ron Perlman


I could tell he wasn’t an eager beaver to get up around 11:30 in the morning to go make sure he’s equipped to get his “I passed!” certificate either.  But it sure brought the humanness back in all this celebrity influence that we’re accustomed to here in LA.

So remember, whether its:

  • Paying off some of the dreaded Bills (Credit Cards, Utilities, Cable, Loans, etc.)
  • Marketing /Promoting your Acting or Film Career
  • Keeping on writing Articles for your Blog, or any other Article Site or Forum
  • Financial Education (e.g., how money works, how to invest, how to start a business, and other ways to accrue more)
  • Learning more about Acting, Screenwriting, Directing, Producing, Casting, etc.
  • How to Use New Software or Social Media to be more well-rounded in this Information Age
  • How to Create Those Cool Effects you see in Films, TV, and Commercials sometimes.
  • Learning how to Mentally Grow and Emotionally Grow… in order to handle any obstacles that come your way.
  • Learning how to Treat Your Body right, i.e., Exercise and Nutrition (that fits with you)
  • Digging into more cool tidbits to be a more Cultured Jack-of-all-Knowledge
  • And so many others…
  • Cleaning the House,  Doing the Laundry, Giving the Car a Wash, and other House Duties
  • Marketing / Promoting your Small Business, Franchise, or Network Marketing Business
  • Or any of the countless other things in our lives and on our minds that we may feel overloaded with…

Just remember, YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO IT ALL IN ONE SITTING.  Take Baby Steps.  Be proud of the fact that you got something accomplished, and keep moving forward!

There’s a great quote that I remember listening to on one of the personal success CDs I’ve acquired over time.  To paraphrase its message, it goes something like this:

You wouldn’t wait where you were ’til all the Traffic Lights down the road TURNED GREEN, would you? Here’s an article that discusses this more

[If it were Hellboy, yes, out of impatience, he would simply shoot the traffic lights, and guess they were all green because he said so, but remember, we aren't horned demon superheroes who were birthed by Nazi occultists and raised under the Bureau of Paranormal Research and Defense.]

Waking up, I’m sure Ron definitely wasn’t thinking, “Boy, I’m sure frickin’ stoked to go get Smog Tested today” or however his Hellboy persona would say it.  But nonetheless, he did it and took action!

Some days are not going to go perfectly as planned [I know I have like 5 other things I'm supposed to get done today].  But if I don’t get them all done, as long as I make note to finish them, that’s what matters.  And some days, you won’t have all the tools to make what you ideally wanted to happen… so keep moving forward, don’t procrastinate, stop stalling, WORK AROUND IT with what you have at the present moment.

Truthfully, I feel 10 times better for getting this out of the way.  Plus, it allowed me to come up with an article I wanted to get out there, but wasn’t sure how to work with it.

I may not have the ability to break through brick walls, like Hellboy’s Big Red Fist can, but it doesn’t mean I can’t find my own ways UP or AROUND  them…and maybe sometimes THROUGH them (pending on Hellboy’s schedule, really).

BRICK by BRICK, I will accomplish what I’ve wanted in this life.  And I wouldn’t expect anyone else to think less of their own either!

So go start doing what you’ve been wanting to do, as well as what you need to still do…

As for me, what’s next on the To-Do…


One of the toughest challenges that many people face on a day-to-day basis, including myself, is all about…finding balance in life.

I loved classical mythology (Greek, Roman, etc.) growing up as a kid, and especially in high school when I took a class  on epics like The Iliad, The Odyssey, Epic of Gilgamesh, and the list goes on and on.

Reading through these classic stories, when you look beyond the brutal violence and heavy acts of lust from every angle (men with boys, men with young girls, men with their own mothers, etc.), the theme of balance is very key and, quite appropriately, one of the most  pressing lessons to pick up from these tales of gods, demigods, and common men and women.

Odysseus wasn’t perfect, either!

While he may have been pegged as one of the most clever and intelligent of Greek heroes (well remembered for crafting the Trojan Horse), on his journey home in Homer’s The Odyssey, Odysseus had to face one of his toughest challenges: channeling the strait between Scylla and Charybdis.

Scylla was a ferocious six-headed monster that lived in a cave on one side of the strait, and Charybdis, on the other side, was a mammoth-sized whirlpool that would suck in any ship that passed too close to it  [as seen below].

In this example, the Greeks establish the difficulty in maintaining a “perfect” balance.  If Odysseus leaned closer to Scylla, he would have to face the consequence of losing some of his men to the voracious six-headed creature.

But if he leaned too close to Charybdis, he could say goodbye to seeing his wife, since he’d be sinking down into the watery depths with all his men and the ship.

Odysseus would do his best, but ultimately chose suffering the fate of Scylla’s wrath on some of Odysseus’ men over Charybdis potentially waylaying them all.

Love Stinks

Another tale  teaching the lesson of balance over extremity within Greek mythology was the story of Hippolytus.  Hippolytus was the son of Theseus (a.k.a., the one who slayed the Minotaur).

A strong devotee to Artemis (a goddess of the hunt, as well as chastity) over Aphrodite (goddess of love and lust), Hippolytus ultimately sealed his disastrous fate because he shunned Aphrodite.

To put it in a nutshell, Hippolytus’ stepmom, Phaedra (under the spell of Aphrodite), secretly falls for her stepson, only to be shunned by him.  In an act of anger to being besmirched, she writes a note to Theseus condemning her stepson for having “raped” her…and then hangs herself.  This enrages Theseus, who calls upon Poseidon to ultimately cause the cataclysmic chariot accident to your right hand side, brutally killing Hippolytus.

All because, once again, Hippolytus chose an extreme case of chastity (Artemis) while shunning love and sex (Aphrodite).

Modern Day Balance

While I don’t expect to find killer maelstroms while on the 101 Freeway or vengeful gods plotting against my love life, I have, to this day, always reflected on the wisdom of the Greeks in striving to find a balance that provides an ultimate sense of happiness in every degree…

This pie chart represents a pretty good estimate of all the “Life Sectors” that make up our lives.  As you look at these sectors, you can totally ask yourself (and be honest!) if you have spent a good amount of time improving each category.

You can see how focusing too much on a single sector can create an imbalance that leads to unhealthy circumstances.  For example:

  • Being a complete “workaholic” can be unhealthy, if you lack the time to develop relationships with family, friends, and potential love partners.  You can sometimes catch it when people are constantly saying how “busy” they are (Believe me, I’m pointing to myself as well).  Sometimes, you see people work so hard that they lose track of exercising and let their physical health subside.  As Jack Nicholson proved so well in The Shining, “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy”… and a little coo-coo for Coco Puffs.
  • Lacking the time and dedication to focus on your financial well-being can be greatly detrimental if your expenses and credit card bills keep draining you from being able to support family, enjoying fun times with friends and lovers, and ultimately creating enough stress to drain your mental and physical health completely.
  • This can go vice versa, if you spend TOO MUCH TIME socially with friends and business partners…to the extreme measure that it depletes your bank account or keeps you from finding some relaxing personal time to meditate, read a good book, or build upon your mental clarity, personal growth, or spirituality.

These are just a few examples of balancing out the pie chart of your own life and seeing how you measure up.

For me, I have given great attention to certain sectors of my life, but at the same time, I also saw how focusing too hard on a particular sector over the others had its own personal effects on other sectors as well (some good and some that would cause yet another imbalance):

  • In 2007, I had the honor of working with celebrity trainer, Ashley Marriott, who helped shape my physical well-being for the better, shaving off 35lbs, which in turn made me feel mentally healthier and more confident.
  • However, around 2008 and 2009, while I continued to focus hard on my acting career and also cultivate my own personal growth through reading Personal Development and Success books, I was overlooking the considerable extent that my acting expenses and social life were having on my financial sector.

Last year, as I’ve mentioned in my last article, I started to learn different elements to increase my financial education, as well as how to implement stronger business skills to my acting career (marketing, promotions, networking).

While there have been days when I have overlooked exercising, and other days from going out and socializing, I know every day is a choice to find a balance that works at the present moment.  If Odysseus could have his difficulty finding the “right” balance, it’s perfectly normal for each and every one of us too (so there’s no need to shoot yourself in the foot).

Just don’t let yourself fall too far off-balance.  And believe me, if you ever get that icky feeling in your gut where you feel like you’re neglecting other parts of your life, or you start feeling like Jack Nicholson in this shot…

…then you’ve hit the nail on the head with this topic!

We’re all looking to find balance and happiness in our lives.  But truthfully, it’s not a one-cure fix.  It takes a consistent effort each and every day to see what needs to be taken care of.

It’s just like famous motivational speaker and businessman, Zig Ziglar, used to say:

“People often say that motivation doesn’t last.  Well, neither does bathing — that’s why we recommend it daily.”

I would like to be able to have the freedom to not think about working forever, to claim my right to shoot for the stars, and dedicate more time for my friends and family without feeling financially-bound…and at the same time strike a balance with making more time to enjoy the creativity of filmmaking and acting.

But where there’s a will, there’s ALWAYS a way!

It’s just simply a balancing act.

@DallasTravers gave me a great link from Tony Robbins on reclaiming your Time again: http://ow.ly/1O0D9

Welcome to my Official Parks Place blog!

Don’t worry, you won’t have to worry about paying me for landing on Parks Place :-) .

In fact, quite the opposite.

While my title sounds quite usual for most artists, considering the less “secure” lifestyle that actors, directors, writers, and other entertainment professionals go through on a day-to-day basis, I happily write this blog from an entirely different viewpoint.

Upon leaving my Alma Mater, The University of Southern California (USC) and majoring in Theatre and minoring in Cinema-Television, I was given a gem of wisdom that I’m still grateful for, to this very day.

And it would come from the unlikeliest of people, my instructor for “Auditioning for Film and Television,” Joseph Hacker.  Mr. Hacker, who came from an extensive background in Film, TV, and commercials, looked at all twelve of us in the small theatre at University Village, where we’d be put on camera to perform mock auditions.

He said:   “I know we’re close to nearing the end of this semester, but there’s something, beyond just the scope of acting, that I wanted to address to you all.”

He continued, “While you may be going into a field that is not only a very creatively rewarding and commendable… but yet VERY DIFFICULT and UNCERTAIN livelihood, I wanted to take this time to say that it’s also important that you keep in mind the larger scope of your future… that being said, I mean your FINANCIAL future.”

At the time, I listened very intently.  Mr. Hacker was the kind of teacher that when he said something, you paid attention, since it was coming from a chunk of his own personal wisdom about the Ups-and-Downs of the Film Industry.  But, at the same time, I was boldly, doggedly, and (yes I’ll admit) FOOLISHLY determined to make sure that my acting would take off…to the point where it would never cause me to fear about ever keeping up with my finances.

“I know, for most of you,” he said, “this will sound like something that you can just nod and file away in the back of your head for five to ten years down the road, but I encourage you to look into it sooner than later.”

He asked us to take down notes, while he gave us some ideas, but the most crucial element was his book recommendation.  “If there is any book I’d recommend you read before heading out into the real world, it would be Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki.

“He offers some valuable information that I would suggest anybody take a look at.  By the time you kids grow older, the world will be a different place.  Good…Bad…I don’t know.  But many elements will be constantly changing, and all I ask is that you always keep growing, learning, and keeping fresh with what’s going on in the world. Never stop learning…”

I never stopped doing so… And while I’ve been proud of my acting endeavors up to this point, I realize that learning how to maintain my Financial Well-Being was something that I’ve been determined to tackle sooner-than-later.

I couldn’t just pretend that bills don’t exist when they’re out of my sight and that “rent” was simply only a play on Broadway.

I took a step toward bettering myself, saying “I would do what it takes to be a financially-sound actor, learning whatever I could so that, ultimately, I would never have to feel that feeling of desperation that comes when you bust your butt and pray that you land that next film or commercial.”  And as much as residuals are a godsend when they come from a performance on a TV show or commercial, they don’t always come so easily.

Taking heed of Mr. Hacker’s words, I went to my local Barnes & Noble one day in Glendale and found Rich Dad, Poor Dad along with two other Robert Kiyosaki books combined all-in-one, entitled Rich Dad’s Plan for Financial Success which consisted of his three earliest works:

1.)  Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Children — That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!

2.)  Cashflow Quadrant:  Rich Dad’s Guide to Financial Freedom

and

3.)  Rich Dad’s Guide to Investing: What the Rich Invest In, That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!

Last summer, I spent an entire month to sit down and carefully absorb over 900+ pages of invaluable information that I agree was a gem of wisdom that I should have taken sooner from Mr. Hacker.

But with no regrets, I’m here on a mission to help impart the lessons I’ve learned, and provide a sense of comfort in saying that “if I could learn it, anybody really could.”  There’s no reason why somebody should go at achieving success alone.

I think we live in a world where people are constantly battered with complicated words (especially financial jargon), which usually fly over people’s heads and ultimately cause them to never take the time to learn about in the first place.

I don’t plan on being that kind of guy.  Kiyosaki’s books were simple and straightforward… just what I needed, coming from my Entertainment background.

And for those of you reading this, I’d like to welcome you on my journey as I share tips, lessons, and other chunks of knowledge that I’ve learned to be a more well-rounded individual…especially when it comes to taking control of my personal, financial, and creative well-being.  And rest assured, I’ll be sure to include some fun stories and other cool finds as well, while I make my adventure through the City of Dreams.

The journey to Financial Freedom and Creative Bliss can sometimes take longer than expected, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be really fun in the process, especially with the right group of people  B-)

So kick back, relax, and let’s begin the adventure!  Welcome once again to my Place.

Most Sincerely,

Michael C. Parks

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